† DAILY LIFE of EMAHOYS (women monastics) †
The Monastic Cell :
“When you pray, go into your room and close the door and pray to your Father
Who is in secret; and your Father Who sees in secret will reward you openly.”
Matthew 6:6
Morning Prayers :
“Now is the time to arise from sleep. Let us open our eyes to the Light that comes
from God and our ears to His voice which cries to us daily from heaven. ”
Romans 13:11
Evening Prayers :
" Let my prayers be set forth before thee as incense; and the lifting up of my hands
as the evening sacrifice. Psalm 141:
Female monastic's live identical ascetic lives to their male counterparts and are
therefore also called monks, and their community is likewise called a monastery;
(The Emahoy/ Head Mother has absolute rule within her monastery).
~~Prayers
* The center of the monks’ life is prayer.
Monks rise on most mornings with the ringing of the bell at four O’clock and assemble in the church to chant the morning office (Sa’atat) which last two hours. On Sundays and Major Holy feast days the Sa'atat starts at midnight and then the Mass (Qiddase), finishes at dawn.
At the women only monasteries there is a male head monk priest who lives there in a separate area for the purpose of conducting the Holy Liturgy.
Unlike the large secular churches monks do not dance as the secular priests do
Some of the more ascetical monasteries do not even chant the office (Sa’atat)
and the Mass (Qiddase), but prefer simply to say them.
~ If attending a secular church a monastic may remove herself after
Holy Communion and eat and pray alone or with other monastics
At 6 PM the bell rings calling the monks to gather once again, usually in the assembly hall, or the church for a short office or evening Prayer of the Covenant, of about 30 minutes to 1 hour.Apart from these common prayers a monk is expected to pray frequently in private.
Each monk is free to choose their own method of private prayer, though certain ways are common. Some pray in the areas around the church building while others retire to their rooms or huts every
one or two hours and say the Lord’s Prayer and the Canticle of St. Mary "Waddasse Mariam". Others repeat ” Eeyesus Kristos, please save me ” or ” Through Blessed Mariam, have mercy on me. etc.
The Jesus Prayer is for Orthodox monks one of the most profound and mystical prayers and it is often repeated continually as a part of personal ascetic practice. Its practice is an integral part of the eremitic tradition of prayer. " Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner". Kyrie Eleison (My Lords have Mercy) is said 41 times after prayer by the congregation but is said hundreds of times throughout the day by monks. Monks also spend long hours at night in silent contemplation. "Quiet Time".
Our Monastic Clothes :
The Canons of the Church forbid clergy to adorn themselves, allowing even for the
excommunication of those who style their hair, wear rich silk garments, or shave their faces
for the purpose of looking better or more stylish.
The austere garb which Canons appoint to monks is designed, likewise,
to avoid vanity and worldliness.
We wear simple clothing to pronounce that we are dead to the world and to its notions of fashion.
We cover ourselves completely to obscure the fallen body and to take on the purity and dignity
appropriate to our bodies when they are kept pure and unspotted.
The very purpose of our habits is to keep us away from non-monastic settings.
We true monastics walk, talk, eat, and sleep in our habits, never remove them, and use them to safeguard our being in "non-monastic settings." Our clothes thus make us.
They make us careful, wary, cautious, and continuously aware of our calling.
Community : (Nefru Gedam)
We come together in the Community Room each morning where we listen to the Rule of St Basil. Important monastery issues are discussed and announcements are made.
Study: The love and pursuit of knowledge, truth and wisdom
~ We study those subjects that will enrich our monastic life and lead us back to the Father through Christ.
Some Monks in the USA attend University and achieve PhD's in Theology.
~ Weekly classes insure a solid foundation and growth in knowledge and wisdom.
~ Our studies includes: Theology, Liturgy, Geez, Amharic, (English for non- Eng. speakers),
Church Doctrine, Saints and Martyrs,St Yared, the Rule of Saint Basil, and Orthodox Church History.
Primary reference sources are Scripture, the Fathers of the Church, 9 Saints, and the Documents of the Church.
Exercise:
~ We must guard against laziness and poor health, Daily exercise helps with blood circulation,
balance and strengthens the body as one ages.
~ Walking the labyrinth, design in shape of the cross; anytime alone or with others.
It’s a meditative, prayerful, and reflective time, with oneself and with God.
~ Walking the stations of the Cross, meditative and reflective of the suffering of Christ and His Sacrifice for us,
Free Time:
~ Apart from the obligations of prayer and work, each Emahoy is free to spend her free time as she wishes.
Monks spend many of their leisure hours chatting with each other.
The Orthodox monastic community is not as strict or restrictive as those of the Latin Rite.
Outside of mandatory times of prayer, each monk has free-will.